Tuesday, July 5, 2016

You are Valuable

You Are Valuable

An inspiring set of words from the man himself. Les Brown

"If you find yourself sharing your gift in places, and with people, that do not seem to want it, don't continue to beat your head up against the wall. Release them. Let them have their own journey.
Life is too short to convince people to be aware of who you are and the value that you bring.
Love yourself enough to remove yourself from any situation where you are constantly making someone a priority who has made you an option. The lips of the wise are sealed to those who refuse to hear and are comfortable being ignorant.
Begin to carve out a place for yourself in life to do the work that you are called to do, for those who are ready to receive it. Your gifts and time are precious. Take care to nurture and develop them.
 Only in this way can you live a life that is purposeful, meaningful and free of frustration. You are a gift to the world. You deserve to be recognized for who you are."
You Have Greatness Within You--Less Brown

Friday, November 6, 2015

Persistence, Determination and Power to Control Our Own Thoughts

Persistence, Determination and Power to Control Our Own Thoughts

 Recently, there has been much talk about Napoleon Hill and his life long work with human nature and how we are to become successful?

 What is the big buzz about this book? Why have so many people started to get interested in it? Tell me  why?  Is it because he has interviewed the most successful people in his time an these people may have never completed school  or even furthered their
education? What makes these people stand out?

I have actually started reading this for myself with a version on my phone and on laptop. It is a great read and a study guide for success. However, what does it tell us? Being persistent is a huge part of why  Henry For has his horseless carriage "on the road" today. He wanted something unattainable but possible. 

Determination set forth for Thomas Edison developed a lamp that ran on electricity. No lighting of a match and solely dependent  on the electricity. Did he fail? Yes of course, roughly ten thousand times. The fact of the matter is he did make that idea into a reality,  Each failure can bring with it a seed of an equivalent success.

Napoleon Hill has stated "You have the power to control your own thoughts." Think and Grow Rich (paraphrased) Poverty and success are in the same mind. Today you have to choose to listen to your own mind and that small still voice the one that can open your mind to dreams and thoughts of how to get where you want in life. Read good books such as this one to open your creative attributes, 

Today you are that dreamer with tolerance and an open mind. Put your dream across and don't listen to anyone that is keeping you from achieving the best you ever, Even if you meet defeat get back up and persist harder with more determination than ever before and you have the power to control your own thoughts.

Find a way and make your dreams come true. YOU are worth it!! 
Oh Yeah Get the book too!
PS obviously Desire is a huge factor as well. 
There is so much more that could be written here, 
but I'll save it for another day..



Monday, October 12, 2015

Perfect Online Profiles: Double Lives:Distorted Realities

A shared article from NY Post.
"Our Double Lives": Dark Realities Behind "Perfect" Online Profiles

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Full article here,

Just want people to remember that we are all out here on social media and some people lead double lives. I thought this story was very interesting. Some people live in Distorted realities. Claiming that their lives are in fact perfect. Someone suffer from depression because they compare their lives to someone else. Even to the point of being and showing their life is so higher class. Be careful to the people that friend you on social media. If you don't know them don't friend them. 

The reason I'm sharing this is because if you online date or are obsessed with facebook posts be careful these people you talk to may be not who they say they are. Unless you know them personally. Just want everyone aware. 
NY Post article and worth a read.
Read through until the end.


Original Story by Maureen Callahan
October 11, 2015
NY Post "Our Double Lives": Dark Realities Behind "Perfect" Online Profileshttp://nypost.com/2015/10/11/our-double-lives-dark-realities-behind-perfect-online-profiles/

Thursday, May 7, 2015

Back To Blogging

Back To Blogging,

Hi Folks

It's been a year or close to it since I wrote a blog. Lots of things have happened since that time and I would like to share it with you in a later post. I love blogging and reading the other posts in the world wide web. However, I would need some suggestions on how all this story writing would make an income. any ideas?

Yes, I have been quite busy during the last year and surprised that there are still people looking at my previous blog posts. I have really no comments on any however, I am pleased to see the activity. I look over the last year and there were so many events happening with my kids, my job, my love life and face book. Ha ha it had been a conglomerate of crazy things.

 My oldest son came back from South Korea and on the way back from the airport we were almost involved in an accident. Luckily, the accident was a bit further up on the highway-to say the least a few hundred feet. However, this resulted in a horrific accident fatally injuring an occupant  of the first of two vehicles involved. It was a really bad moment in history for my life.

My job and love life kinda went down hill. Both did not succeed well. I think this was the time that I stopped blogging and writing the stories. I was happy at one time but when so many things hit you at once it tends to wear on a person. My solution was to get back up and continue to hold my head high and make the  best of  what my current life held.

Obviously, I have reread some of my blog posts here and they are very informative. Maybe now I will continue to write here and share my "Everyday Things" with all of you.

Life is getting better and so am I.

Looking forward to reading comments

Ps Have a super day!Thanks for reading!

Monday, July 7, 2014



Success or failure? It's always your choice. You alone have the responsibility to shape your life.
Once you understand this, nothing and no one can deny you success. There's really no one to stop you but yourself.


More powerful than all the success slogans ever written is the realization that everyone has but one boss. That boss is you.
Your life will always be to a large extent what you make of it. No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you.
If you want to be successful, you can be successful.


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Sunday, July 6, 2014

Healing Wounds Of The Past..

Healing Wounds of The Past:

We all have wounds from our past and sometimes they creep up into our future. Why is that?
Sometimes the hurt is too much to bear and our hearts do not let things go that easily. Strife and bad situations always have their  tole on how people feel. It could be from a bad relationship, divorce, accidents, and or a death of a loved one. No matter what it is- we as humans have to heal. Maybe not forget but just try to move on..

" Until you heal the wounds of your past, you are going to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex; But eventually, it will all ooze through and stain you rlife. You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is  holding  you in your past, the memories and make peace with them......"
Iyanla Vansant

Go on and live! Make peace with the past and just let go of the pain. No one said it is going to be easy: Right? But it will lift your spirits and give you a fighting chance at life. Do for you!! Maybe you have dreams that can not be achieved because of this pain from the past. Every new minute that passes can be that beginning of healing and  forgiveness / Start now "Let It Go!"

"It comes to a simple choice, really. 
You get busy living or get busy dying"
Andy Dufresne in the 
Shawshank Redemption.

On a personal note:
As a child I grew up in foster care and had some of the most extreme things happen in my life. a first and second marriage: failed. Homelessness and poverty- felling of abandonment . I often wondered why am I plagued with so much strife?
Life was not always that easy and it was hard to forgive myself and those who were a part of the pain and suffering. It was so bad at times that giving up was the only choice. Perseverance kept me going." there are better days I kept whispering....."  And finally - there were better days.
Keep your chin up...


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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Just Another Tuesday

Just Another Tuesday

Its just another Tuesday here in Farmington and it has been a beautiful day.Lots of sunshine and warm weather. It is about time that we were graced by mother nature with sunshine instead of snow. Haha Returning to the wonderful spring weather we should be having.

Until a few weeks ago mother nature and the groundhog couldn't decide whether the sun was going to shine or if it was going to blizzard.One day was a Tuesday and it snowed and snowed rendering the town nearly closed -just thinking the day before was a warm 72f  and sunny. What a let down with the snow. Haha I tell ya it was not so much fun digging the car out to come to work or even trying to go across town.It was just that bad.

So much for the weather.

As for today the weather has been beautiful with no exception. If I were to be anywhere at the start of a day this is where I would want to be. No snow- no cold weather. lol   By the beach with a loved one bringing in a new day. Maybe even a Tuesday. What would you do if you had time to bring in a new day? Leave me your comments I would love to know. As for now we only have today and not promised tomorrow. So live each day to its fullest and dream the biggest dreams. Then go out and make them happen!!

Thank you for reading.  I'll post more at a later date.
I did.